When we say goodbye to a loved companion, it touches every member of the family — including the other animals in the home. Pets form strong bonds with one another, and they can feel confusion, sadness, and grief just as we do. At Lifting Stars Veterinary Homecare, we understand that saying goodbye is not just about the pet we are helping to pass peacefully; it’s about caring for the hearts of those left behind, too.
We have gathered some gentle ways to help support your surviving pets through this emotional time.
Allow Them the Choice to Be Present
Many pets are aware when a companion is nearing the end of their journey. Some may want to stay close during the euthanasia appointment, while others may choose to keep their distance. Wherever possible, we encourage giving your other pets the option to be present — but never forcing it. Their instinct will guide them to what feels right.
Create a Calm, Comforting Space
Before our team arrives, preparing a quiet, familiar environment can help ease anxiety for everyone. Keeping lights low, speaking softly, and surrounding your pets with things that feel safe — like favourite beds, blankets, or toys — these can offer comfort during an emotional time.
Respect Their Reactions
Pets, like people, react to loss in different ways. Some may approach their companion to sniff or sit close; others may seem disinterested or confused. All responses are normal. Allow them to process what is happening in their own way, without pressure.
Give Them a Moment to Say Goodbye
After their companion has passed, offering surviving pets a chance to see and sniff the body — if they wish — can help them begin to understand the loss. This natural closure often helps reduce searching behaviours later on. We recommend to supervise these interactions, and trust your instincts on what feels appropriate for your family.
Watch for Signs of Grieving
Pets grieve differently from humans, but the sadness is real. You may notice:
- Decreased appetite or interest in food
- Restlessness or increased sleeping
- Vocalizing (whining, howling, meowing)
- Searching the house
- Withdrawal from the family, or clinginess
- Changes in house-training habits
Most pets adjust over time, especially with patience, love, and support.
Maintain Routine and Offer Gentle Comfort
Keeping a consistent daily routine — feeding, walking, playing, cuddling — provides a sense of safety when the world feels different. Extra affection, attention, and gentle enrichment activities (like food puzzles, short adventures, or cozy nap spots) can be helpful ways to nurture healing.
Create Small Memorial Moments Together
Including your surviving pets in simple rituals of remembrance can be healing. Sitting quietly together in a favourite spot, lighting a candle, planting a flower, or even just sharing memories out loud can bring a sense of togetherness and peace.
When to Reach Out for Help
Grieving is a normal part of love and loss, but sometimes pets need extra support. If your pet’s appetite doesn’t return after a couple of days, if they seem very withdrawn, or if you notice persistent changes in behaviour, please reach out to your regular veterinarian. Sometimes grief can unmask or worsen underlying health conditions, and compassionate support is available.
At Lifting Stars Veterinary Homecare, we are honoured to be part of your journey — not only in helping your companion pass with dignity and love but in holding space for everyone who is grieving. Your pets’ feelings matter. And so do yours.
